Adoption of a 3yr old

I found this blog last night on a China group that I belong to. This mom is traveling home with her 3yr old boy from China. Reading her blog makes me very anxious and excited. When I watched the video it really hit home that we are going to have a significant language barrier. (I need to learn more than Hello, thank you and good bye)
http://cristofolettifamily.blogspot.com/

My favorite post is the one titled Update. Look on the right side almost to the bottom. I hope we have a tender moment like this one.

Christmas Pictures

Christmas pictures in no particular order. I think this may have been the least stressful Christmas ever. Enjoy!

The Grandmas try their hand at Wii bowling. It got a little dangerous when the tennis game was on.

Mia was very nervous about the arrival of Santa. She even slept with us because she was so scared of him coming into our house. After seeing all of her presents we were eating breakfast and she annouced that she likes Santa now. This was evidenced later in the day when she willingly held this santa's hand.

It wouldn't be Christmas without a picture of Paw Paw sleeping on the couch.

The dreadfully long Lowe's trip

It was buying time for a lot of the house supplies. Faucets, knobs, light fixtures, insulation............and more. So, when we had to go get the 3rd buggy I knew it was about to get ugly. I pulled out my new Christmas camera to try to distract our four helpers. This is what I got.




p.s. I haven't forgotten about the last 2 days of Christmas, but nothing dramatic has happened. I have nothing new to post.(Unless you want to see the Master Bath toilet that is in the middle of the bedroom) Mia gets a big kick out of that every time.

a step in the right direction

David and I went to the INS office to be fingerprinted yesterday. We have been waiting for them to mail us our fingerprint appointment since mid-November. We received it this past Wednesday. We were expecting a long wait at the office. (Being a government office) However, we were pleasantly surprised and were in and out within 20 minutes. As we were leaving David commented that he almost asked the lady if she knew she worked for the government. But he thought better of it! Since they still have more papers to send us.
Once our fingerprints clear they will send us a letter called a FDL (Favorable Determination Letter) that basically states we are good to go and can bring home an orphan and he will be declared a US citizen. This is the final step toward having our dossier ready to mail to China. Last time it took 9 days to receive this letter. We will see what happens this time. I expect it to take a little longer with 2 holidays thrown in those 9 days!

I did notice that my fingerprints had several lines across them. They looked like wrinkles, I asked the lady if those wrinkles were going to get in the way with the matching process. She said "No, they're fine, You people all watch to much CSI" Yes, I agreed with her, I probably do. I wanted to ask her if my prints would be run through CODUS but again, don't want to make the nice lady mad.

The recital that..... WASN'T

The hair was fixed just perfectly, the tutu was fluffed, the slippers were ready but apparently Mia wasn't.
It all started at drop off when she didn't want me to leave the room. Even though there were 14 other girls there wearing the exact same outfit ready to dance to Jingle Bells. It didn't matter.

She made it out on to the dance floor and then the tears began to flow. She would have no part of dancing on this particular Saturday. (See those crossed arms)

Oh but wait! After the recital she was all smiles for the camera. Ready to pose and twirl and show us all her moves

Luckily, there's a Spring Recital.

On the 10th day of Christmas

my true love gave to me...

Someone other than us doing the work

It was a joyous moment to walk in and see a "crew" tackling the mess. This guy was texturing the walls. All the texturing has now been done and almost all of the painting has been done as well. There is some trim to be done and some touch ups here and there.

On the 9th Day of Christmas...

my true love gave to me....

4 helpful friends painting way into the night

Gayla decided she likes my "Latte" walls a Lot-A. (Guess you had to be there)

Valarie edges the pink room with her favorite edging tool. We'll hope she doesn't go blind from staring into the pink.

Stacy works to cover the boy's "art work"
Darla worked her roller magic in the master bedroom

I was there to but no one stopped long enough to take my picture. Wow! These girls worked hard and I sure am proud. We did 3 bedrooms and the hall in about 4 hours.

On the 8th Day of Christmas...

my true love gave to me.....
helpful kids painting (walls, themselves, graffiti, each other, the concrete)

On the7th Day of Christmas...

my true love gave to me....

Bathroom tile laid twice

Nice Job, But Oh NO! the tile is straight and not laid on the diagonal

Now, that's better don't you think? (Don't tell me you can't tell the difference, because I can)

The job was suppose to be done on the diagonal and apparently the tile layer didn't know this and did a lot of the tile before anyone saw. So, he kindly ripped it all out and then re-tiled this past weekend. I tried to live with it the first way but after about 3 hours of trying to talk myself into it while painting this bathroom I decided not to start "settling" this early in the game.

Elf Yourself

Zane found this Elf Yourself web-site and made this little song and dance number. Zane and I think it's hilarious. Especially the Paw Paw elf.(that's my dad)
http://www.elfyourself.com/?id=1504566579

On the 6th day of Christmas...

my true love gave to me....

A very open floorplan

This shot is from the gameroom looking toward the kitchen, See the big ledge on the left. That was actually a walk in wetbar. Complete with cabinets, shelves and a sink. It is now all gone....

This is from the kitchen looking out into the living room. See the white bucket on the floor. That's where the bar once was. I'm so excited to have the house this open. I can see "who started it" without having to leave the kitchen.

On a side note... all the kids have been asking to see Alvin and the Chipmunks movie. I thought it would be a nice break to take them tonight. I didn't realize tonight was actually the opening night. Also, it was apparently the opening night for several other movies. I have NEVER seen so many people in line(s) at the movie before. I remember standing at the Charles Cinema and complaining if there were more than 6 people ahead of me. Well, my have things changed. I waited for 25 minutes just to get the tickets and then 2 more hours before the movie actually started because all the showings were sold out until 9:20. It was quite the event.

But, the movie was really cute and everyone really enjoyed it. Mia almost made it to the end. She feel asleep during the last 10 minutes, just in time for David to have to carry her across the back 40 to get to the car.

On the 5th Day of Christmas....

My true love gave to me...
A Dumpster in the driveway

And look what went in it....

Lots of Tile

and tons of BLUE CARPET.....It's gone Hooray!

On the 4th Day of Christmas....

my true love gave to me..... Four Kids at the dentist

I had to deviate from my theme today. I believe a 2 hour trip to the dentist with four patients and No Cavities deserves it's own blog post. (David took a break from the house, I don't fly solo on this type of trip.) Kaylee's behind the lady in the purple jacket. Getting the flouride that she obsessed over for several days. She hates that part.

They give each child their own pair of sunglasses, to help with the bright overhead lights. Did you notice the white Kilz paint on Mia's fingers? Yes, we had worked on the house earlier.

On the 3rd day of Christmas....

my true love gave to me....

A kitchen to gut

(Yea, I know gut is not really a Christmasy word but I what else can I say?)

Before

During

The after picture will come a few weeks from now. The cabinets will be in Dec. 21st. Merry Christmas to Me!

On the 2nd Day of Christmas....

my true love gave to me......

Lots of 80's Wallpaper, To scrape off


I am not kidding, I scraped wallpaper for 11 hours in just the laundry room. I even had help. Emily came over for about 4 hours as well. That night I had to take Ibuprofen and Benadryl to get to sleep, my bicep hurt so bad.

On the 1st Day of Christmas...

My true love gave to me a big, old house to remodel....

The theme for this year's 12 days of Christmas will revolve around the current project that we are focused on. We've owned the house for about a month now and are frantically trying to get it ready to move in. We hope to be moved in by mid-January. We feel very blessed to be able to work on it and not have to live in a construction zone.

So Close

Westlake High School made it to the Superdome in New Orleans for the championship game. I told Zane that the team they are playing is also 14-0 this year. He said, "Well someone is going home tonight 15 - 0 and someone is going home 14-1." Sadly it was our Rams that has to make the LONG drive back home.
High School Football3A State Championship Game
Final Score:
Westlake 18

Parkview Baptist 19

Glitz and Glam

Mia was invited to Holland's Glitz and Glam Birthday party. Oh My! this girl sure had a fun time. She's been carrying around the invitation for a week, waiting for Friday to finally come. Well it was well worth the wait. The photos below show a little bit of the fun from the party today.
Let me start my spa experience with a soft, fluffy robe and a cold drink.

Sure! I have time for a manicure.

Getting my hairstyled

Gotta Get my make-up on!

Wow! Aren't we beautiful

" Raise the Roof" Was this a birthday party or a dream come true?

A true conversation

I overheard this last night while Trent and Mia were playing:
Trent- (With a pink clam shell case in his hand, Presents it in front of Mia and asks) "Mia Will you marry me?"
Mia - Takes the pretend ring out of the shell and says "Yes, Thank you for my ring"
Mia - "Hey wait, Take this back, I want a bigger one"
Trent - "Listen, You get what you get and you don't throw a fit"

Maybe the Lady in the Moo Moo was right?

Monday we went to work on the new house. As we were walking up to the front door one of the kids spotted this huge hawk in the oak tree above us. The picture doesn't do him justice he was at least 18" tall. And if you look closely you can see a squirrel tail hanging over the branch. He was very regal and majestic and sat there for quite some time with his prey.

When our friends the Davis's went to Petsmart to adopt a cat the lady doing the adoptions told them they could not let the cat outside.(she sits there every week in her moo moo gown and slippers) They asked why and she said "Oh, you never know, an owl or hawk might swoop down and take it away"

We thought this was quite humorous. But, right on moo moo lady this hawk could have easily carried off a kitten. (Maybe not the Davis's cat Texas, that cat is so big a tow truck might have a hard time) Hopefully Izzy and Webster are big enough now to fight over this hawk once we move in.

HEY WEST LAKE, WESTLAKE

All season I've been wanting to take the kids to a high school football game. But with soccer on Saturdays we just haven't been able to. Well last week, Mom called to say that our High School is undefeated and in the Playoffs. The Westlake Rams were 12 - 0. So Friday night we bundled up and headed to the stadium. At half time the score was 0 - 0. This was truly a high energy, high impact, highly attended game. It was FUN and Fast. By the end of the game Westlake had taken over and played great "smash mouth" football.(I read that in the paper this morning) The final score was 27 - 0. RAMS WON! They are now 13 - 0. They will play Patterson, LA next Friday and if their streak continues they will head to the LA Superdome in New Orleans for the High School Championship game.

We had a great time reminiscing and seeing lots of familiar faces. I kept expecting to see Carla, Kim and Rachel walk across the track in their cheerleader skirts. I then kept checking the 3rd quarter clock to make sure I was back in the band stands after our half-time presentation. It was a little smack in the face when I realized those memories were so fresh and are at least 15 years old. Another slightly hard realization is that I taught the quarterback when he was in the Two year old class at Mother's Day Out! (Ouch!)

I did see my friend Kim on the sidelines. She gets special privildges and all since her dad is the Head Football Coach and has been for a very long time. I was just as happy for their family I was for the players.

Can't wait to see what happens next Friday night!!! Only, I guess I'll just need to hear about it!

Piggy Back Bloggin'

Last Sunday my friend Gayla and I babysat for our friends who have 9 month old triplets. I would love to post pictures here but there are 2 things to consider here:
#1 I didn't take my camera
#2 Gayla has done such a wonderful job posting it on her blog
so just click here and you can see the pics
http://thedavis4.blogspot.com/

Boy Blue

Little Boy Blue

come blow your horn, the sheep's in the meadow and the cows in the corn...

WAIT!!!! Where's your horn? So this year's Nursery Rhyme parade went off without any tears (see http://dswalling.blogspot.com/2006/11/little-miss-muffett.html) if you have forgotten the spider incident of '06

However, Little Boy blue did not like the cardboard horn that his mother got up an hour early to make for him. So, I guess his teacher thought you wouldn't really know what character he was unless he had a little sign to hold.

He was fine holding the sign, I would have liked to have seen my horn displayed but at least there were no tears. I am learning how to pick my battles. This one was not worth winning.....Just look at that smile

Another step closer

Monday morning I mailed our Homestudy to the INS office. We are now waiting on a fingerprint appointment.
After our finger prints are cleared we will be issued a FDL (Favorable Determination Letter) After we recive this letter we can mail our Dossier off to China. Then we will move on and wait yet again. The hardest thing about this process is waiting on other people. The Houston INS office has a fairly good track record with processing papers in a timely manner so we hope it won't take to long.(Please pray that it will go quickly)
We also recived an update on Ty's physical growth. Looks like he is going to be a big boy. Right now he is the same height as Mia and weighs 7 pounds more than her. The update also says that he knows how to unwrap candy, can turn a TV on with a controller, knows how to move a stool over to climb, and doesn't like to share. But really people what two year old does like to share?

The funniest thing to us is that it says he is "fond of quietness" Every once in a while when things really get jumpin' over here, David and I look at each other and say "fond of quietness"
Adjusting to the noise may be one thing but the thing that worries me the most is that the report says he HATES the camera and Cries when he sees one. Oh, people this could be BAD!!!! Because as Zane said it so eloquently "OH NO!, Mom what are you gonna do? You're all about the Scrapbooks"

Lost N Found

We have been missing our orange and white cat, Webster since Halloween night. We didn't worry about him at first because he has gone prowling for a day or so then returned. But this time he has been missing for Four days. So, last night I made some signs with his picture and about 2 a.m.(After David finished watching the Dallas Cowboy game on Tivo) David went and taped them up around the neighborhood.

When I went to bed I was very worried about the cat. I just wanted to know what might of happened to him. I was concerned someone might have picked him up and taken him home while out trick or treating. So I prayed!! I admited to God I felt a little silly praying about my lost Cat but in the Bible it does say to take EVERYTHING to God.

So this morning after the kids left for school my neighbor who drives the morning carpool called to tell me they had spotted Webster on the drive to school. Zane had gotten out of the car and tried to capture him but he squirmed away. So, Mia and I took off down the street to see if we could spot him as well. We snooped around in a few people's yards(hoping no one would call the cops) and then finally we stood still and quiet for a little bit and he walked around the corner of a house. I called his name and he ran straight to me. I picked him up and carried him home. When we got in the house he ate for 15 minutes straight. Then went upstairs and laid down, he slept for Seven hours. He was dirty and his fur was very damp, so I don't think anyone had taken him in. Here he is catching up on some much needed rest.

All day I have been thanking God that he answered my prayer. I've also had several thought about the Prodigal Son. Funny how a cat can teach Biblical lessons.

Mia is practicing her new "Santa" look. As we have been shopping lately I've started saying the oldest line in the book- "We'll have to tell Santa you want it." I guess she's having flashbacks to last year's visit to see Santa and every once in a while she will get very quiet and ask if she HAS to sit on his lap in order to get toys. I think she's looking for a loophole in the system.

However, after much contemplation one day she announced that this year she would "Try to sit on his lap, but she may just need to sit on the bench beside him"

Oooooh! this girl is Smart!

Too Cute to Spook

Heading out for Trick or treating is Darth Vader, Hannah Montana, Star Wars Clone Trooper and a Pink Kitty.

We're Pre-Approved

We're pre-approved not for a new Visa, Discover or Mastercard..... But to adopt Ty. The DHL package arrived at the office in Oregon this morning and Tiffany called to let me know the good news. This letter basically states that based on the information we sent, China will allow us to adopt and we can proceed as planned. Now we will finish getting all of our papers(dossier) together and submit it to China ASAP.
The exciting part of this it that we were told it may take from 6 - 8 weeks to receive this PA(pre-approval). It only took 3 WEEKS!
We can also now request updates on how Ty is doing and we can send him care packages until we arrive. It may take a long time to get an update but we can ask because the Chinese governement considers him OURS!

AWANA

Ever since we moved here we have been involved in AWANA club. This year Mia is able to be in the Cubbies program. Every week the kids have bible verses to memorize and recite to their leader. Mia even has a weekly verse. It has been a wonderful way for the kids to learn scripture. It's even helped me to learn many verses, plus last year Zane had to learn all the books of the Old Testament. Which I am fairly sure I knew at some point but I am now current on them again.

Contentment

I was sorting through some pictures for my upcoming Scrapbook Retreat Weekend and found this picture I don't remember taking. Is that not two perfect looks of contentment?

Future Make up Artist

Can I just say, she had never been more pleased with herself.

BOO!

Last night we got "Booed" About 8:30 the doorbell rang. David went downstairs to see who might possibly be at the door at this late hour. (I of course was hoping it was someone with a cashier's check ready to buy the house.) But, anyway when he got to the door there was no one there. Only an orange pumpkin bucket, full of Candy and a note saying we have been "booed". The good kind too, Snickers, Reese Cups, Twix, etc. Our Boo phantom spares no expense. Here's the Boo bucket now, less than 24 hours later. You can see with 4 kids and 2 adults who think they're kids, the candy doesn't last long. We're hoping for a "Boo"fill later next week.

*disclaimer* Daddy you can quit worrying about the candy being tainted I have a real good idea who my Boo phantom is, (Just think wife of the furniture man)

Because we all need something funny....

Soccer Season

Soccer season has begun and this year we have 2 players on the field. Trent is playing for the Jr. Tigers and Kaylee is playing for the Lady Mustangs. Both of them really enjoy playing. And we enjoy watching them. I enjoy the game from my folding chair and David enjoys watching while coaching on the sideline. Trent even made 2 goals last week.