Monday, March 31, 2008

Kaylee's Baptism

We had a special Easter this year. On Easter Sunday morning Kaylee was baptized. She was so excited and not nervous at all. A couple of weeks ago she asked David and I about becoming a christian. I had talked to her quite a bit before but she never was ready to pray to receive Christ. This time she brought it up and she was ready.

........buried with Christ in Baptism

.........Raised to walk in a newness of Life

Wednesday, March 26, 2008

Sunday, March 23, 2008

Mud Bugs

We all enjoyed an afternoon of crawfish. Playing, Boiling and Eating them.
Kaylee was trying coax Mia into touching the crawfish. I think she finally succeded.
Of course the boys had no problems touching them. They tried to find the ones with the biggest claws.
I think Zane may have won the biggest claw contest.
It was time to move the crawfish from the ice chest to the pot. Mr. Butch reached in and grabbed two big handfuls of crawfish. He said, "Here Kaylee, can you help me? Just do this." He was really just picking at her but as soon as he moved over, Kaylee was right there grabbing two big handfuls as well. This girl has NO FEAR

It took the boys a few minutes to get up enough nerve to try it.

Mmm! Mmmm! Mr. Butch is finished boiling, and about ready to pull them out.

Everybody trying their hand at peeling them. The kids tried hard but Nana and Mrs. Eva peeled a lot of them for the kids.

Thursday, March 20, 2008

Bloggy Makeover

With everything in nature so fresh and new I decided I wanted to make-over the blog. I drool over some of the neat designs that other people have created. (NiHao Ya'll) But I found out that they Pay people to design them. So, being the tightwad that I am, I tried my hand at a new look. I'm pretty pleased with it. It needs a little tweaking but the overall look is there.

And it only cost me 2.99 for the patterned paper that I bought to scan.
If you're a scrapbooker you'll recognize it.....(K&Co)
Let me know what you think......

Tuesday, March 18, 2008

Just a year ago....

Every morning Granny had cookies and coffee. The kids loved to gather around her chair and help her eat her ginger snaps. It was one year ago today that our Granny went home to be with Jesus. The kids and I had been in LA last year about this time for spring break and had just returned home when we got the news that she had just slipped away. The week we were here we had boiled crawfish and Granny ate them like there was no tomorrow. Which was really unlike her because for the past several years nothing had really tasted good.

We miss our Granny and talk about her often. She would have loved to see the azaleas blooming and all the amaryllis buds coming out of the ground.



I can only imagine what flowers she is seeing now.



Perhaps we'll have some boiled crawfish today.......

Monday, March 17, 2008

Casa Abre

It was casa abre at the kids school. (Or open house as most of you non-spanish speaking people would know it.... including me) We visited all the classrooms and got to see a lot of special work for Zane, Kaylee and Trent.
The science fair was also part of the open house. Zane's project won second place. He competed against 103 other 5th graders. We were all very proud.
Trent's class had just concluded a lesson on space. Here Trent is standing next to his alien portrait. He drew it during a listening activity. The teacher would say draw your alien with as many eyes as you have people in your family. Draw as many legs as how many birthday's you've had. It was really cute.

We dropped by Zane's class to see his animal habitat and special adaptation that he had designed.

Kaylee read us a book in espanol about the red hen. We also did a map skill activity with her.

Tuesday, March 11, 2008

Throw me somethin' Mister

Our cousins in Slidell, LA sent the kids a Mardi Gras box. In it was all kind of "Loot" that cousin Gabe had collected from the parade. Mail is a big deal around here and when packages come it's like Christmas morning.
The anticipation....... I'm not sure what was more interesting, waiting for the box to open or waiting to see if Zane would cut himself with the knife.
Mia loved the beads and light up wand. NO they didn't throw Hannah Montana dolls from the floats. This was a birthday present.
Trent found the Frisbee first and claimed it as his own.

David and I searched and searched the bottom of the box for a King Cake but we never found one. What's up with that? We would like to formally request a Strawberry & Cream Cheese one for next year.

Friday, March 07, 2008

Houston we have a problem....


After a run in with a car.....Rocket is not ready for lift off
Wednesday evening as we were leaving for church Rocket actually ran into a car as he was running across the street to come home. We were all out in the front yard and we are very lucky that this is all the damage that was done. Because everyone saw the accident.
Here he is waiting for the Vet's office to open up the next morning. We made him an improvised splint and gave him a large dose of Ibuprofen. Kaylee made his pallet for him, complete with a pillow. Which he enjoyed very much.
He broke his Radius and Ulna. As you can see pretty severely. This kind of break requires surgery. A splint will not fix this. So David drove him from the regular vet over to the Orthopedic Surgeon !?!?! I didn't know this profession existed.


So here is the metal plate and 8 screws that are hoping to repair the fracture. He will have to be in a "cast" for 2 weeks then we return to have the stitches removed and change the splint out. The doctor said in 6 weeks he should be back to normal.

Apparently the trauma hasn't affected his positive outlook on life.

Wednesday, March 05, 2008

Say cheese!

Mia is a photographer in training. (Or at least a scrapbooker) It's always fun to download the pictures from my camera because there's always a few surprises for me. She takes pictures of anything and everything. From the TV, her carpet, my rear end, the cat food, she doesn't care... she feels the need to document it all. Here are a few of from her recent photo shoot.

Her doorRocket's nose
Her new kitchen
Her sock drawer
The cat in the cupboard
(is that a nursery rhyme?)
And a full shoot is never complete without at least 10 self portrait shots

Sunday, March 02, 2008

Miracle Monday

So, I was browsing through some blogs and happened upon one that was starting Miracle Monday. She wanted to use her blog to honor God and the miracles He performs in our lives daily. And for some time now I've wanted to share here about what happened to us in China when we first had Mia. Some of you know the story but I didn't post all the details on the blog during the trip because frankly it was somewhat SCARY and I didn't want anyone to not adopt because of a wrong impression someone might get. So, fair warning, this may be lengthy. But it's a great Miracle..... It's Mia's Miracle.
June 2005 - David and I were in Beijing on what we knew would be the trip of a lifetime. We had seen many sites including the Great Wall, Tienanmen Square, etc. It was all new and wonderful to take in. But somewhere inside me I had the nagging feeling that something just wasn't right. I even told David that I felt like something might not go right with the adoption. I had heard about children not bonding to their adoptive parents and I thought this might be what was going to happen. That maybe God was preparing me for the fact that Mia might not bond to us. I was somewhat OK with this because I knew eventually she would. I even prayed that if any of the babies weren't going to bond that it would be ours. Our travel group consisted of mostly childless couples and I just couldn't imagine what it would have been like for one of them to have worked so hard and wanting children so badly and then the child reject you at first sight.

Then the big day came and we had our wonderful meeting with our new baby girl. She at the time wanted Daddy much more than me but that was OK because she was bonding to one of us. After a few hours of getting to know her the orphanage director came over and said she had a little fever. I thought she felt a little warm but I didn't worry to much. I had taken a prescription antibiotic with me, that was sure to cure even the worst ear infection. So we immediately started her on the medicine and Motrin for fever. The next day as we undressed her I saw puncture wounds in her feet and behind. Probably about six to eight. I was very concerned about what they had been giving her. She began to get more and more lethargic and was only awake for short periods of time. David and I took turns staying at the hotel with her while the other person went to complete paperwork. After more fever a rash developed and her lips were cracked and started bleeding. We knew it was time to call the International Adoption Doctor we had retained before leaving the states. We called her about 11 pm China time and She told us we needed to get her to the hospital to find the source of the fever. I was so uneasy with this I didn't know what to expect. It was obvious someone else had been medicating her and then I had been medicating her also. So, the next morning with great reservation on my part,we headed to our guide's room at 7am and asked her how we could get her to the hospital. Our guide said give me 10 minutes and off we went.
I had never encountered anything close to this experience before. The clinic process there is that you pay in advance for each service and then take a number. We first paid ($6) to see the "good" doctor. Then after waiting in line we were shoved into a room with 2 doctors and wooden desks. The doctor sat behind the desk and you placed the child up on the desk for him to examine. After his initial look at her he sent us for blood work. We then went to another window to pay and then another line for the blood work. When it was our turn we placed Mia's arm through the "bank teller" window and they took blood. Then we waited in another line for the results. We took the results back to the doctor and he and our guide had what seemed like a 30 min. conversation. We asked "What is he saying?" She responded with "She needs a heart scan" I knew there was more. We said, "be honest with us, we can handle it, WHAT is it?" At that point he turned over his paper and wrote Kawasaki Disease.

We had never heard of this. It is extremely rare and effects mostly Asian people. No one knows what causes it and it can be treated if it's not to late. (TO LATE??) Apparently if the disease has progressed for 10 days without treatment then it typically causes Aneurysms in the heart which leads to death. So we phoned the orphanage to ask when the fever had started and she had fever for 4 days prior to our arrival and we had her for 3 days. We got in line for the heart scan, the nurse tried to get us to give her sleeping pills and return in 3 hours. But at this point Mia was so lethargic that she literally just laid in our arms with only slight movement. The guide quickly pointed this out and the nurse said we could try. While we waited in line, our guide leaned over and said "You may have to choose another baby" We replied "NO we want her and we just want to get her well" I tried everything I had to get her back to the states for medical care but our paperwork was not done and she would not be allowed out of China much less into the US. And we didn't have days to waste.
Our only option was to trust in the medicine here in this hospital. Mia laid on the table and the technicians performed the echo cardiogram while David and I prayed harder than we had ever prayed in our whole lives. We couldn't imagine that our little girl who we barely knew might be taken from us already. The technicians confirmed that there were currently no aneurysms, no vessel damage and that her heart looked healthy. Praise God!

We were then escorted over to the PICU for treatment. Suffice it to say they don't do hospital the way we do. It was surreal. The head of the dept. came in and confirmed that it was Kawasaki and she even pulled out an English Medical text and let us read from it. Mia was then given a bed and an IV was started to administer extremely large doses of Gammoglobulin. She needed all of it in a short period of time. We were told we may have to do this a second time also. They initially wanted her to stay in the hospital for 3 days and we would not be allowed to stay with her. Our guide quickly stepped in and negotiated that we would stay all day and then be allowed to take her to the hotel to sleep and then return with her the next day for more treatments. That was all dependent on how she responded to the first round of medicine.

About 30 minutes into the IV It was a miracle before our very eyes, Mia sat up on the bed and begin to laugh and giggle and wanted to play. We could not believe the difference. Of course we had really never seen this side of her because she was sick from the beginning.

We stayed with her for 12 hours while all the fluids were pumped into her little body. One of our guides stayed with us as well. She sang Chinese songs to her and did little finger plays. It was so sweet to watch. Then as we were talking our guide (let's call her S) said,"Are all the people in your group Christians?" We looked at each other and said "Yes" (because everyone who adopts through AWAA has to sign a profession of faith) We asked why? She said, "because this morning when I left to tour with the rest of the group, they would not let the bus start going until they each took a turn praying for Mia and you guys. It took over 20 minutes" We were so grateful and just overwhelmed that they had all lifted us up while we had no idea what was going on.
Then S said, "Do you believe in Jesus?" We of course said, "YES" We asked if she did and she said she didn't know. I asked her if she had heard of the bible and she responded, "Oh yes! I have read the whole thing and I like the stories very much" The whole thing???? She has read the whole thing!!! David and I were about to bust out of our skin!!! So right there in the middle of a Chinese hospital we were able to share our faith with her. We're not sure if she received Christ at that moment but we could tell that she needed someone to tell her that Jesus is real and the bible is too.
Mia responded remarkably well to the meds and we were allowed to leave the hospital around midnight. We got up the next morning and returned for the doctor to check her and she was given aspirin to take for the following 3 months. We were to repeat the Echo cardiogram once we returned home. We brought home a happy, healthy little girl who is a literal Firecracker.

Looking back we can see that God ordains different things in our lives for reasons we don't understand. It's not always easy to walk through them but "OH the MIRACLES" that you can experience if you trust in HIM for every step of the Journey.

You can read more miracles here A Mom's Life.

Thursday, February 28, 2008

Wordless Wednesday

Well maybe a few words Just this first time- Apparently some people post a picture on Wednesday without writing anything about it. I guess it gives people a chance to blog something quick and easy. So here's my photo. Kaylee and I saw this at the Houston Zoo on a Girl Scout field trip. Every time the calf would try to get the milk (by what seemed like biting the mother) all the little girls would scream

Monday, February 25, 2008

ahhh.... she's back

It's funny how we are such creatures of habit. We know our routine and we stick to it. Well, with this move I have had just a few settling in problems. Nothing to be alarmed about but still until I can figure out the routine on some things it drives me NUTS! I'll name just a few, because I'm sure you don't want to be bothered with all of them.
#1 I can't figure out where to put my jewelry box. It was previously on top of my dresser. But we just got a new dresser and I don't want to put it up there. The dresser is so high already I wouldn't be able to see anything in it. The bathroom has a nice dressing area but I've always heard the humidity in the bathroom isn't good for jewelry.....

#2 (and equally as traumatizing.) I don't have a long rod to hang my damp laundry on. I usually dry clothes for only a few minutes and then hang them to dry the rest of the way. (thus preventing wrinkles and the need for the that four letter word IRON) David has installed a long rod in our other houses but this house has no good prospects of a spot to install the rod. (I am considering calling some engineer friends over to see if they can come up with some sort of contraption)

#3 This one my friends has a very good ending.... I have not been able to take a decent shower since we moved here. Apparently the previous owners were Low Flow. They had the Low Flow toilet systems, Low Wattage lighting, and Low Flow shower heads.(Anybody remember that Seinfeld epsiode?) So, I asked David to please retrieve the shower head from our old house. Because really, I was beginning to get bothered by this. (I have always thought that I could do the 30+ day stint on Survivor but this shower situation has made me think differently) Anyway, he changed the shower heads out last night and oh the difference a MOEN makes!!! (I may buy stock)

So if you have any suggestions on my dilemmas above feel free to let me know. Other than this the moving in is going Fabulously!!!

Wednesday, February 20, 2008

What do you do with extra Valentine Tattoos?

Apparently apply as many as possible to your face.
I'm still trying to figure out what Tattoos have to do with Valentine's Day. They were probably created by some person who didn't want there kid to have any more chocolate. Our kids just thought they were cool.

So, Kaylee gave the Puppy and Kitty ones, Zane gave Flames and weird hearts, Trent gave Spiderman ones, Mia's were princess of course. If you're wondering where Mia was, I think she was napping during this tattoo extravaganza!



Sunday, February 17, 2008

Just a few more exciting details.

In all the excitement I forgot to add a few details about "ye ole Fantastic night"
***Attn: If you have not read the post about the concert below, stop now and read it first***

1. On the way to the concert David and I stopped for a quick dinner at Chipolte. When we got to the register the clerk asked if a debit card was the only form of payment I had. And I said "Yes" She said "Well then have a great evening and Happy Valentine's Day on us" Apparently the debit machine was off-line. Free Dinner - It was just a premonition of things to come.

2. At the concert I stood next to a young man at the door. He was about 11 years old. (pic below) He had the best smile and would just grin and laugh at everything I said to him. Later in the evening David informed me that he was just adopted a month ago from Ethiopia and didn't speak a lick of English!!! So much for my conversation skills, eh?

Anyway, David had been standing near the boy's Dad and this man was a pastor at a local church. He told David that about 30 orphan kids from Ethiopia had visited their area last summer. Well, through their congregation nearly all the children had been adopted. So now they all go to church together and will eventually attend school together. How cool is that?

3. Now this is not exciting, but I feel the need to explain my outfit on the night of the concert. I wore a navy sweater because it was cold. Knowing full well that we would be receiving a black T-shirt to wear for the concert. I intended to change into the T-shirt. But considering the sub-zero temperatures inside the event I opted not to take the sweater off. I had full knowledge that extra bulk around the midriff is never in my favor but sometimes the ability to not shiver wins out!!

And last but not least, if you've been hiding under a rock you may not know who Steven Curtis Chapman and Mary Beth Chapman are. He of course is a Christian Contemporary Musician. You've probably sang many of his songs before. But their amazing journey began several years ago when after having three biological children they felt the Lord calling them to adopt from China. They have adopted three girls from China. They have done lots of work opening the eyes of Christians to the need of families for all the 140 million orphans in this world.
So you can see why it was such an honor for David and I to get to meet this wonderful couple.

Friday, February 15, 2008

OH! What a night......

The excitement... Oh the excitement.....

David and I signed up to volunteer at the Steven Curtis Chapman concert last night. We were part of a group of volunteers to help with the Show Hope campaign for Shaohannah's Hope.


At each of the concerts on this tour they have collected change. That change is then given to a local family that has applied for an adoption Grant through Shaohannah's Hope. They grant up to 7,000 per family on an as needed basis. Here is a little glimpse of SOME of the change that was collected.

It was our job to collect the money and then count it up. Well, there was SO much change that at 10:00 we ended up estimating the final change total. The bills and checks collected were over 10,000 and with the change it made the total well over $16,000. WoW!!! All from one audience. That's enough to give 4 families each a $4,000 grant. We were all in awe of how well the event turned out.

And THEN!!!! Guess who I got meet?(yeah David too) BUT I got to meet Steven AND Mary Beth Chapman.

I quickly told her that I read her blog faithfully. She turned to her friend that was standing there and said "See, people do read it" Oh Yes Mam I do.
So, I asked her how the kids were doing and if everyone was better, because when we had the flu, so did they!

She is such a real, genuine person. Humble and so friendly. It was great. She commented on our buttons that we wore with the kids pictures. We talked about how smart Mia is. That Mia is a Lefty because Steven and Mary Beth are both lefties. ( I really didn't just lead in with that, it just kind of came up in conversation) Yes, there was conversation, it wasn't just me blurting out random things at her.

And a little later Steven came over. We all got to visit with the MAN!!!
David shared with Steven about how Shaohannah's Hope has affected our life. Because when we began the process to adopt Mia, one of the things we were banking on was the hopes that we might be awarded one of the grants his foundation gave out. Then within months of starting the adoption process God came through in a big way for us. He gave us the entire amount of the adoption in one fell swoop. So instead of applying for a grant we were able to make a donation!!!
Because that is the intention of the Foundation..... You take the first steps toward your adoption and then watch how God will work out the details (our miracles in our case)
Here we are....... Just the 4 of us!!! IT was a great Valentine's Day!!! One I will not soon forget!!!!

Tuesday, February 12, 2008

A finished Kitchen




So this is the kitchen that started the whole "project" When we bought the house the main goal was to remodel the kitchen so that we would have an open floor plan. Well the kitchen turned in to the family room, the dining room, the game room, kids rooms, kids bathroom, down the hall to the master bedroom, and master bath. Then of course new flooring throughout. The project itself was a lot more than we intended. At first we were going to hire someone to do all of the kitchen but as we began to get quotes we realized that we could do so much more by doing it ourself. Now, lots of it was hired out but by being the general contractor it saved us money. There were painters, tile guys, carpet guys, granite guys, cabinet guys, door guys, sheetrock guys #1, sheetrock guys #2(repaired sheetrock guys #1's work) So after the parade of guys was finished we have an almost complete house. There are just a few finishing touches left to be done. But now that we're in the house it makes accomplishing those tasks easier.

Remember what it looked like before?

Was it all worth it? YES!! (Thanks for asking me and not David, he still needs a few more weeks)

Saturday, February 09, 2008

Thursday, February 07, 2008

Koon She Fa Choy!

Happy Chinese New Year!!! Today is a big day for the Chinese. It's very similar to our Christmas in the fact that it is a National Holiday, everyone decorates for it and people go home to visit familiy. In many cases businesses and schools will close for a week or two. Also, it is the day everyone turns a year older. Most older Chinese don't celebrate indivdual birthdays. So welcome to the Year of the Rat!! (I agree, I don't think I would want to be a rat either)

Also Today was the premiere of the new Nick Jr show Ni Hao Kai-Lan. Many people have compared her to a Chinese Dora. Mia has been so excited about this, she has talked about it all week. She couldn't wait to watch it. And it didn't disappoint. We learned how to say Hello, Good-bye, count to 3 and Grandpa all in Mandarin. I am hoping we can learn a lot more before our trip this summer.


Which brings me to my next item. I heard back from our adoption agency yesterday that our dossier (paperwork) is finally back from the Chinese Consulate here in the US and should be sent by DHL to China on Friday. A copy of it is already in China and is being translated. So, it looks like we should be logged in by Feb.14. It may have been sooner but due to CNY everything is closed. So, hold on Ty we're coming. (4 - 5 months from now)

Sunday, February 03, 2008

Camera raffle

Ni Hao (that means Hello in Mandarin)
Somehow I came across this family's blog site. The title of the blog is Ni Hao Ya'll. It's called when east meets south. Funny Huh? It's a southern girl and texan boy who have adopted three times from China and are in the process again plus they have four biological children. (8 total)

Anyway, about the camera... As a fundraiser the Mamma is raffling off a Cannon digital rebel camera. You simply donate ($10 is suggested) and you're entered to win. Run over there and check it out. www.wheneastmeetssouth.blogspot.com And even if you don't want to do the raffle go look at the adorable header she has on her blog. I love all the little pictures.

Saturday, February 02, 2008

WHEW!


We're in.....Not rain, nor flu, nor proscrastination would stop us. But all I can really say is that we're in. We've made the beds, located the toothbrushes and unpacked one box. It will be a few weeks before we're not living out of boxes any more. I am so overwhelmed by the amount of help we had today. To move an entire house in 4 hours is no small challenge. I'll post more later about that.

Just FYI if you need to reach us, call our cell phone. It will be few days before our phone is up and running.